Gay in public bathroom

Gay Men: Common Toilets?

Sevastopol1

Public toilets? I mean, what is that about? I myself hold some difficultly conceiving the erotic impose that these venues appear to offer.

And that whole ‘peephole drilled in the cubicle wall’ thing? If you depend on to see a naked man and you are one, is there not an obvious and economical solution to that dilemma?

I include a suspicion pissing people off is a significant motivation for this behaviour. Is that right, even if it comes only from aggressive indifference? And I can’t really see how anybody could let depart normal decorum in that manner.

While I confess to conclusion the phenomenon disturbing, this is in GQ rather than GD or BBQP because I am interested in factual answers only rather than feeding my initial impulse to post in the BBQ - P. No disparagement of any gay people is intended.

Illuminatiprimus2

Well first of all I would refute whole-heartedly the idea that it’s done with the intention of pissing people off; whilst it does have an influence on others its an unintentional consquence of the context (as a linear man you’re an innocent bystander to this process).

Cottaging, as it’s called, emerged mainly

How did toilet cruising work?
February 17, 2015 3:19 PM   Subscribe

I was reading an gay travel guide from 1980, and it reminded me that I've never understood the mechanics of the toilet pick-up. One of the notable features of the guide is that among all the bars and bathhouses listed, many locations also imply cruising toilets. This seems soinherently sketchy. How would you recognize when it was safe to signal to somebody? Don't you run the constant risk of an embarrassing and dangerous confrontation? Do you actually have sex in the bathroom, or is a rendezvous point? And given that these locations are so well established that they show up in a travel guide, wouldn't they be easy pickings for the police?


Any info or stories about etiquette and exposure mitigation would be of interest.

Bonus points if you can explain how toilet cruising worked in an international context. After a strong warning about how dangerous cruising is in the Middle East, for example, the guide lists toilets in Syria and Kuwait. There are similar listings throughout the society. While cruising in the U.S. sounds risky, it seems enjoy only those with a death wish would cruise toilets as a tou

Public bathroom gay cruising: Exploring the dynamics and identity of public bathroom cruising

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Let’s Examine the Phenomenon of Cruising Bathrooms Through 4 Famous Queer Men

Throughout history and for a variety of reasons, gender non-conforming men have looked to public bathrooms as places to get laid. Some men enjoy cruising public restrooms because they’re turned on by the exhibitionism and the possibility of getting caught, while others observe it as a place to anonymously and discretely own a same-sex meeting in times when being outed as queer carries grave social, political and legal consequences.

Cruising widespread restrooms has turn into an ingrained part of queer history, with mixed feelings surrounding it. On one hand, it’s considered so seedy, sexy and transgressive that “toilet tramp” hookup scenes own become a usual scenario in homosexual porn (and even inspired drawings of gay erotic illustrator Tom of Finland).

On the other hand, it’s also considered by some to be a obscure side of gay sexuality and history that has been used to shame queer men for their otherwise benign sexual proclivities (often in the specify of protecting children or public decency).

Noting both sides, homosexual video game creator Robert Yang made a bathroom cruising video game in 2017 entitled The