Gay sex is fun
5 things straight people don’t know about male lover sex
For heterosexuals, gay sex might be something of an enigma.
There may be many who contain no clue as to how gay men actually have sex and the quirks that come with it.
opinion What is a bro job? And why are they so popular?Gay people in general are much more well-versed in heterosexual sexual practices due to the educational and cultural bias toward straight people in this area.
It’s worth noting that I am speaking from the perspective of a gay man, not the entire LGBTQ community, and I aim to enlighten members of the vertical community on how homosexual men prepare, engage in and enjoy sex between ourselves.
1. It takes preparation
One of the best aspects of a sexual exposure can be its spontaneity.
An out-of-the-blue moment of fire sounds much more appealing than previously planned sexual activity.
For some gay men, however, sex can be quite regimented.
This is of course down to the sometimes necessary preparations lgbtq+ men take before engaging in anal sex.
For noticeable reasons, anal can be a messy experience if the proper preparation isn’t carried out beforehand, and that prep can be both time
The ins and outs of safer, greater sex.
I’m scared of bottoming
Most gay men will consider bottoming at some time. However, the thought of doing it for the first day can be scary. Don’t let that put you off.
You may prefer to douche before bottoming, especially if indulging in deep arse play like fisting or with immense dicks/toys. Use plain, clean water, preferably at body temperature. Avoid using shower attachments - the water pressure can be dangerous. You can get douche bulbs online or from any excellent sex shop. Aim not to leave overboard and irritate the lining of your arse, as this can craft you more vulnerable to STIs.
Get yourself relaxed with lots of foreplay enjoy rimming or fingering. Some men undertake use amyl nitrate (poppers) to loosen the muscles around their arse but there are two major health warnings. Poppers:
- have been linked with an increased risk of HIV transmission
- don’t mix with erection drugs favor Viagra and may cause a heart attack.
Deep breathing is far safer, helps you to unwind and relaxes the arse too.
Find a position that suits the size, angle and curvature of your partner’s dick. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn into your chest, w
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"This was my first (and only) time a guy had gone down on me. He got naked and offered to go further. I told him I could try but only with protection. He came endorse with condoms, and I tried but couldn't stay up. He asked if he could attempt, and at this point I just felt I was all in anyway, so I was down.
It was an interesting experience. I was taller and physically bigger and had never been
The “how to” of sex positions is imperative for any bond. Mastering different gay sex positions not only heightens the trial but also provides a deeper connection with your partner both literally and figuratively. But before we start, if you’ve ever wondered, “What’s a top or bottom?” Don’t worry. These terms might be common within the LGBTQ+ community, but not everyday vernacular for everyone else, which is why we’ve put together an ever-growing list of Diverse terminology.
At Bespoke Surgical, we reflect about sex in completely unlike ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will allow improvement for everyone. Regardless of which gay anal sex positions you explore, it’s important to comprehend their differences:
- Affect the top and the bottom in different ways
- Bring out both submissive or violent characteristics of each person
- Require an understanding of both everyone’s positioning (height, penis curvature, and pelvic angle)
Little nuances and adjustments can make all the difference in terms of pleasure vs. pain, as does open and trustworthy communication. It’s key