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First time gay sex tips

Tips for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men – in a guarded and respectful way

To begin, I’d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it’s important to perceive that you can attempt new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who yearn to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.

Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and identify as men too.Cis is the other side of trans. We speak trans men morehere, andhere’s some support and suggestions about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.

1. Be honest from the get-go that you’re curious

Whether you want to hook up with someone you’re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you’ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr, honesty is fundamental from the beginning. Many queer people are feeling

7 Tips to Form Your First Period Bottoming Absolutely Amazing

If there’s one position that reigns supreme: bottoming. It’s a rite of channel for any sexually active man. There’s nothing hotter than the feeling of having your ass filled and stroked while you’re doing the stroking yourself.

However, you might be wondering what to expect when you bottom for the first time. 

While it can be nerve-wracking to think about, there are ways to take your first time bottoming to the next level That starts with getting to recognize your body, empathetic what to await during anal sex, and learning how to take your partner’s dick the right way.

If you are new to bottoming, HomoCulture has rounded up some of the foremost tips to assist you make your first time bottoming absolutely amazing.

1. Arrange Yourself Mentally

They tell sex is all in the brain, and rightly so in this case. Getting mentally prepared for your first-time bottoming is key to having a good experience. This means taking the time to chill and getting yourself aroused before anything happens. 

This can be done through stimulation with your hands or a significant other or through an orgasm-inducing

First time tips?

smyth-2k91

i’m preparing for my first anal sex. any tips please ?

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Daisy19822

Search “anal sex” in the forum topics and you will find lots of topics and tips already discussed

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smyth-2k93

thanks. does this cover gay anal sex? i am the bottom

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Peitho4

Hi @smyth-2k9
Welcome to the forum!

Biggest tips - lots of lube and a relaxed mental mindset. Lots of foreplay so you’re turned on, ready and wanting it.

Not sure there’s any difference from the recieving point of view whether you’re male gay, male linear or female. My top two tips apply to all.

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smyth-2k95

would you advise a position? he wants to perform it in the doggy style position

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Peitho6

Start in a position where you are in regulate of depth and speed and can control the penetration, something like cowboy. Once you’ve got used to it (and are hopefully enjoying it!) travel onto whatever you both like but start slow and with what you are comfortable with or it’s likely to hurt.

smyth-2k97

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CurvyJilly8

My first time anal wasn’t planned…didn’t exploit lube…and never own for partnered sex.

We took it behind

My(35M) first gay sexual experience is coming up. What should I know?
February 5, 2020 11:10 PM   Subscribe

I am a 35 year old cis man, and I have been only with women my whole life. Suddenly I find myself being attracted to men, and my first gay sexual trial is coming up! I touch like a teenager again :) How should I prep for this?


Hello. I am a 35 year old cis guy, and I've been only with women up to now. I've always considered myself enthusiastically hetero.

A year or so ago, I first experienced the pleasure of anal sex (i.e. having my butt being played with, penetrated with a finger etc) with my female partners.

Since then, I contain been fantasising strongly about organism penetrated by a real penis. I've begun experiencing some attraction towards men, and (for the first time) been aroused by gay porn. I really yearn to be fucked by a guy!

So long story brief, I've met a kind, kind gay man who knows about this history of mine and is interested in being my partner in this adventure. The big day is coming up soon. I'm really excited but really nervous! I know I should try to be spontaneous but I have so many questions! What are things I should be ke